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10 tips for winning her heart: romance for beginners

Not everyone is a born romantic. It takes practice, patience and these 10 tips from Nina & Valentin for winning her heart.

Let's be honest: romance comes naturally to some people, while others find it a challenge. If you fall into the latter group, don't worry. There is hope.

The following 10 tips will help you raise your RQ: your romantic quotient.

Communication is key

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The first rule of romance is to listen. Understanding what your partner wants, needs and dreams of will help you choose a surprise that truly moves her.

If she mentions a book she would love to read or a trip she has been dreaming of, take it as a clue for a thoughtful gesture.

Buy the book, or, when the time is right, book a romantic weekend away. Taking an interest in your loved one's world can bring you closer together.

Make time for her

Romance is not dead, whatever some may say. Bring it to your next date by looking at your priorities and making a small adjustment.

A demanding career can easily take the top spot on your list of priorities.

Putting your partner or someone you are getting to know first shows that you care. Start by putting your BlackBerry away on a date and paying attention to the person beside you.

Simple gestures of affection can keep the romance alive in the long run.

Be spontaneous

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Spontaneity is still a wonderful ingredient. Do something unexpected: take your partner in your arms and dance to a street musician's tune in the middle of town.

Turn up with flowers and a bottle of wine. Swap an evening with friends for a takeaway and a quiet night together. Making room for spontaneity can bring out your romantic side and delight your partner.

Laughter + romance = a wonderful date

Laughter brings people together. Add a little humour to your romantic life. If making your partner laugh feels daunting, take her to a comedy show or film.

You will have something to laugh about and plenty to talk about afterwards: a simple way to kindle a promising connection.

True romance is priceless

I love you written in the snow

Anyone with money can buy an expensive dinner and wine. Real romance need not cost anything. There are plenty of affordable or free ways to show someone how you feel.

A simple serenade, a heartfelt love note or a moonlit walk side by side can reveal your tender side more clearly than lavish gifts and extravagant experiences.

Give a sincere compliment

When in doubt, say something kind. Who doesn't enjoy hearing something lovely about themselves? There is no need to be overbearing or sentimental.

Tell her that her perfume smells wonderful, that she looks beautiful in the starlight, or that you love spending time with her. What matters is that the compliment is genuine and comes at the right moment.

Winning her heart also means giving her space

Woman travelling

We all enjoy closeness, but too much can stifle romance. Be attentive when you are together and give your partner breathing room when you are apart.

That does not mean failing to call when you promised. It means not calling twenty times a day or filling every spare moment. Keep your own interests and allow your partner to enjoy hers. A little space can bring a fresh spark to the relationship. 

Create the right mood, setting and atmosphere

A romantic setting often depends on subtle details. A lovely location, a welcoming mood and a few thoughtful touches can make an occasion feel special.

Remember that romance is personal. What delights one person may not appeal to another. Pay attention to your partner's likes and dislikes and let them guide the details.

Learn from experience

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As the saying goes, if at first you don't succeed, try again. If a romantic plan goes wrong, don't be discouraged. Romance takes practice.

Be open to trying new things, even when they do not go as planned. Talk with your partner about what went wrong and what you could do differently next time. Then give yourself another chance.

Keep romance alive

When you have conquered the goal you longed for, that is her heart, remember well that you should never forget about romantic gestures. In a healthy relationship, romance never dies. Ours Forever Roses keep the memory of you in the room for several years.

You owe it to yourself and your partner and your happily ever after future. You need to keep the spark alive and your relationship will flourish.
If you are ever in doubt, re-read these 10 tips that will revive your world of romance.

Avoid predictability. And most importantly, pay attention to your partner's wants, needs and longings. Stick to it and your loved one will be happy, and your romantic needs will be satisfied as well.
And, dear ladies, if you have read these tips, the same applies to you!

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